From Fear to Empowerment: Moms’ Stories of Raising Blind Children

Z’Leah N. Liburd offers powerful reflections from mothers raising Blind and Low Vision children—mothers who have become strong leaders in their homes and communities. These stories illuminate what it truly means to raise Blind and Low Vision children in a world where ableism continues to shape how disability is perceived. Their experiences remind us of the importance of removing barriers that prevent us from building Vibrant, Diverse, Inclusive, Accessible Communities! These mothers share what they have learned—not just about parenting, but about navigating systems, challenging assumptions, and building strength through community.

The mothers featured—Jennifer Pascarella, Sarah Stolarczyk, Candice Miller, and Tamika James—describe deeply personal journeys that begin in uncertainty but unfold into empowerment. Whether learning to advocate in a hospital just hours after giving birth, or relocating an entire household to create a safer and more inclusive environment, each of these women made bold decisions rooted in love, clarity, and a refusal to accept barriers as inevitable. Their growth as parents reflects the ongoing work of removing barriers and shifting societal perspectives about blindness and parenting. These voices challenge assumptions, providing community-focused reflections that resist pity and instead reinforce dignity and strength.

Understanding blindness not as a limitation, but as a difference.

Throughout their stories, a recurring theme emerges: understanding blindness not as a limitation, but as a difference. These mothers emphasize how Blind People, including their children, thrive when communities are Inclusive and when harmful stereotypes are removed. Their perspectives shift over time, not due to resignation, but due to increased awareness, connection with the Blind community, and direct experience witnessing their children’s accomplishments. In doing so, they not only remove barriers for their own families—they contribute to fostering vibrant, inclusive communities where Blind People can thrive.

This article calls upon all readers—especially those involved in parenting, education, and community building—to consider how we speak about blindness, how we design environments, and how we participate in a culture that must remove systemic ableism. By listening to and amplifying the lived experiences of these mothers, we take a step closer toward building a world that honors Blind People’s potential. Let’s deepen our commitment to Inclusive Design, International Accessibility Standards, and Removing Barriers so that all families—including those led by and raising Blind People—can live fully, independently, and inclusively.

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by: Z’Leah N. Liburd